When life gets in the way

When life gets in the way of your hobbies it’s frustrating, but when it gets in the way of your passion it can be soul-destroying. Things have been a little tense lately and I’m discovering what long term sleep deprivation does to a person. I honestly believe it would turn even the sanest and most patient person into a ticking time bomb. Despite the lack of sleep, Jemima is the light of my life, she is the cutest little human being I’ve ever met, and she’s my little human, but finding time for your hobbies is also so important. Cooking and writing this blog are my hobbies and it’s often a wonderful escape from the pressures of everyday life.

Cooking has taken a back seat and has become about quick fixes, baby purees and baby led weaning – a rather joyful but messy task. I love making up her food from scratch to ensure she’s getting the healthiest most flavourful start in life. I can’t wait until she’s big enough to stand on a stall brandishing a wooden spoon, wearing a miniature apron and cover my kitchen with flour. I can see all the mums laughing and shaking their heads saying “just you wait”.

I’ve thought long and hard about whether, after all this time away from blogging, I should continue, but I have to. This blog is the thing I’m most proud of. I make myself feel guilty for not being one of those bloggers with a tight schedule posting three times a week – but the truth is, I have a life outside of my blog, one that consumes me. I’m a full time bid manager/proof reader, mother, fiancée and obsessive organiser – yet somehow I find time to see my friends and family. I guess blogging naturally takes a back seat, but time and again I come back to it, because it’s my passion.

I want to talk about meal planning and online food shopping and why it’s saved my sanity and allowed me to feel, and be, more organised. It’s a great way to save food and money. I’ve always been a super organised person, so meal planning makes me feel as though I’ve really got my shit together. I love having a plan for the week ahead and a stocked up freezer of batch cooked meals on hand, it’s essential these days.

I take a quiet hour and write a rough meal plan for the week, taking into consideration what I’ll be doing each evening – that way I can decide if I need a quick meal, or if I have the luxury of time to get creative. For instance, on the rare occasion I get the opportunity to dash out for a drink with friends, I plan to throw together a quick salad, rather than preparing something time-consuming.

I decided to try online food shopping for the first time, which at first was a horrific experience. I used ASDA online – never again. I don’t think I have ever experienced such awful customer service. They had to rearrange my delivery for a day later than I wanted and they were still late. Their customer service team seem to be non existent; either that or they had better things to do than answer the phone. When my shopping did finally arrive the delivery driver was rude and some of my items were missing. However, don’t let this put you off online shopping as I had an entirely different experience using Ocado – using the website was easy, it wasn’t anywhere near as expensive as I anticipated it would be, the service was brilliant, the food arrived on time with more than acceptable ‘use by dates’ and they even threw in a free tea towel.

Shopping online means I only buy what I need and can review my basket at the end and spend some time swapping brand named items for cheaper alternatives – I knocked about £15 off my total by doing this. So, if like me you’re an online food shopping virgin, go on, give it a go and remember to write that meal plan – you’ll save money and you’ll feel super organised.

 

 

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